Here’s a cute drawing for the weekend. He’s clearly been on the end of a good healthy whipping. Left with something for him to admire and her to poke at.
I think this is by the artist strawderryst.
The beauty of dominant women
Here’s a cute drawing for the weekend. He’s clearly been on the end of a good healthy whipping. Left with something for him to admire and her to poke at.
I think this is by the artist strawderryst.
Cosmopolitan Magazine has an article out celebrating femdom and male submission as the ‘hot new thing.’ It always makes me happy to see positive femdom coverage in mainstream media. Destigmatizing it for women who might want to give it a try is great. At the same time, these kind of articles tend to have their fair share of eye rolling comments and this is no exception.
I was particularly amused by this part…
For many, there isn’t a traditionally sexual element — Sarah’s submissives, for example, have their genitals locked in chastity cages.
I mean I guess it’s not traditional to lock your dick up, but it’s sure as hell a sexual element. Chastity is all about sex, even if there’s no actual sex being had.
The other annoying part of the article is the references to the ‘default’ of male domination and this new ‘trend’ changing things up. When I think of actual BDSM and kinky content creators over the years, femdom has always been a huge part of it. The centralizing of men in the default dominant role in kink came from societies stereotypes, filtering from there into conventional porn, not the other way around. As one of the submissives interview in the article puts it…
maybe we’re all more open about where the baseline of kinky sexuality has always been
The artwork is by the great Eric Stanton. A man celebrating femdom decades before American society decided it was safe for women to be in charge of their own credit.
I always appreciate a seriously kinky scene rendered in an unusual or unexpected style. This reminds me of the kind of illustration you’d find in an old children’s book. Something involving magical rings or secret doorways. It’s an Edwardian tale of a plucky girl, her emotionally distant Uncle, the stern but caring housekeeper and, of course, the special friend she keeps locked under her bed.
I’d love to know who created it, but Google seems to be determined to ruin their image search with AI. In quick succession it gave me 4 entirely different suggestions for the artist name, all of whom are well known artists but whose styles are absolutely nothing like this. It claimed it was the cover of a particular children’s book, which it’s not, and named the wrong illustrator for that book. At one point it even said the piece was called ‘The Cage’ but then changed it’s mind and said it was unknow. Just endless useless hallucinations.
If you can help me attribute it then please leave a comment. I’m suspicious it has been cropped or edited at some point to remove the name.
Continuing the festive themed femdom comics – here’s something from creator MyGumsAreBleeding. It’s not quite as cuddly as yesterday’s post, but it did make me smile. Santa is clearly a switch given this and the previous comic.

You can find more from the creator on Reddit, their Patreon and Instagram. I’ve particularly enjoyed his series ‘Summoning Grandmas’. Totally not femdom but fun. You can find the catchup series of posts for that here along with the latest part at the top.
Tis the season for kinky artists to give us Christmas themed smut. In this case it’s Jo (featured previously here) with a big old candy cane for Santa. I like the fact Santa has kept his festive socks on and Mistress Clause has some cookies close at hand. Presumably in order to keep her energy levels up.
You can find more from Jo on their Bluesky, Patreon and Reddit. Or just check out their collection of links here.
This comic – by Luck of the Draw – made be smile. However, at the risk of being pedantic about a comic, there is a significant flaw in the premise. As I covered in my last post, arranging to meet a pro-domme for the first time is not a trivial thing. Anyone shooting Dawn a 1 line email asking her to come by and edge them on Monday afternoon is going to be disappointed.
I guess the reverse situation would be worse. Imagine expecting a sultry domme with a party sized jar of lube and opening the door to a sweaty guy sporting a weed wacker. That’d be a libido killer. Unless of course, you’re into that kind of thing.

You can find more from Luck of the Draw at her Patreon, her Bluesky and over on Reddit.
I spent last week hanging out with friends in Palm Springs. This week I’m in LA, getting my kink on in the sun, with a few sessions spaced over several days. Hopefully, assuming it’s agreeable to the domme I’m seeing, I’ll be able to share some details in upcoming posts.
In the meantime here’s a visit to the past with a cartoon from 1925 (at least that is according to reddit). Not a fan of the cat kicking part, but I think we can all get behind the idea of some swashbuckling boots and the subjugation of man.

Not exactly my usual material, but it made me laugh and it does seem appropriate subject matter. I’m not sure if glass slippers would be great for a foot fetishist (all that collected sweat) or terrible (too impersonal and impervious).
This is by Tommy Siegel shared as a collection of cartoons via reddit. He’s done a couple of books using this format and I think they’re great. Worth checking out if you’re looking for Christmas gifts.
I’m continuing the theme of pegging in unusual positions with this image. As I mentioned in the last post, I’m a fan of face to face strap-on play. Not sure I’ve ever tried crotch to face, but I’m definitely up for giving it a shot.

I couldn’t track down an original source for this. I suspect it might be more fan art, but reverse image searching didn’t give me much.
This originally caught my eye just because I thought it was a cute – and hot – pegging scene. I’m always a fan of being face to face rather than the more common doggy style.
However, on researching it, I realized it’s also fan art of Spike and Buffy of vampire slaying fame. Which makes me love it even more, given I’m a huge fan of the characters and the show. Buffy was totally the top in that relationship, whatever Spike might have thought.
The artist is Auia AKA awabubbles. Sadly, they’ve not posted for years and most of what they have posted is M/m. Still I’ll take a little spuffy loving when I can find it.
