About

About me……

I’m a 30-something male. I originally grew up in England, but moved out to Seattle, WA several years ago. The weather seemed much the same, but the coffee, wine and food were a big improvement.

Sexually I’m a submissive masochist, and enjoy a wide range of the activities that you’d normally associate with that particular kink. Outside the bedroom/dungeon/crawlspace I spend far too much time in front of a computer and nowhere near enough time in good restaurants.

If you’ve got something nice to say (or nasty – I’m a masochist after all) then feel free to drop me a line. Or if you’re a top in the NW area looking for someone new to play with, then definitely drop me a line.

About the blog….

I was originally inspired to start this by the many other excellent blogs out there that I read on a regular basis – eros blog, bondage blog (who I even stole the site tag line from), sex nerd, etc. There didn’t seem to be a good general femdom blog out there, and my hard disk had hundreds of links and images scattered across it that were just begging to be shared. And of course, like most bloggers, I’m a frustrated writer who enjoys scribbling things on public walls.

If you’ve got a great link or image for me then feel free to send it my way. Alternatively if you think I’m incorrectly attributing content, or I’m sharing something you believe you own and want removed, then please let me know.

  • #1 written by Aarkey
    about 3 years ago

    Nice blog.

    I noted in your FD gallery pages, the last one goes to Kahori’s site – but you remark that as it’s in Japanese you’re unclear about what’s there.

    Google chrome can be setup to automatically ID and translate languages. It’s not perfect, but it is usually quite good and definitely expands the WWW in all it’s foreign languages.

  • #2 written by Bird
    about 3 years ago

    hey mate i just stumble across this fan blog of Bruce Baker, it seems like it is rather new, but it is worth to check it!!

    http://brucebakerfn.blogspot.com/

    • #3 written by paltego
      about 3 years ago

      Thanks for the pointer Bird. As you say it’s very new, but looks promising. I’ll keep an eye on it over the next few weeks and if the author keeps the updates flowing I’ll add it to my Bruce Baker information section, and potentially the femdom image page.

  • #4 written by vernice61
    about 3 years ago

    I wanted to let you know my drawings on female domination. Thank you very much
    Your great site!

    Vernice61

    • #5 written by paltego
      about 3 years ago

      Thanks Vernice61! Glad you liked the site.
      When I get chance I’ll add you to my collection of femdom artists that I have here. Your work is really good.

  • #6 written by m_in2_t&d
    about 3 years ago

    This is a great site. Love all the great pics and even more the comments that capture and give the story of the pic. Love the site…got any electrical toy articles or inverted suspension?

    • #7 written by paltego
      about 3 years ago

      Thanks. Glad you like it. I’ll keep an eye out for electrical toy or inverted suspension stuff.

  • #8 written by Dan
    about 3 years ago

    This is an outstanding site. It makes the subject of Femdom seem entirely natural and delightfully playful.

    One could bring a vanilla girlfriend to view it and not be ‘ashamed’ of it seeming tacky or repugnant.

    Please, please keep the blog and the resource going. It’s an invaluable and beautifully stylish achievement.

  • #9 written by gibo
    about 3 years ago

    Very nice site,
    I appreciate a lot the the graphic- nice and serious- the freedom , no dead link and so on.
    I also like your stories.
    Thanks for all.
    PS. forgive my mistake , i am not english Mother tongue.

    • #10 written by paltego
      about 3 years ago

      Thanks. I appreciate the positive feedback. Glad you’ve enjoyed what I’ve put together!

  • #11 written by Ashley
    about 2 years ago

    Hey, I think this blog should be put onto this resource page, It covers ground on a lot of different types of Femdom, just thought I would share it. :)

  • #12 written by LoneP
    about 2 years ago

    I appreciate a lot this site, nice and free.
    Forgive my mistake , i am not english mother tongue.
    I wander if you can give me an advice.

    I’m looking for a site willing to host my stories.
    I specify that:
    - Are written in word and accompanied by various images
    - Some are long and fairly complex
    - Are strictly femdom
    - Does not contain scurrilous terms even if the content is somewhat “hard”
    - Typical keyword: tort, scat, piss, death, is not gay, not lesbian, not under-age sex.

    Of these stories I just want to keep the intellectual property.
    I would like to be published along with the picture.
    I welcome any kind of suggestion.
    Thankyou very much.

    • #13 written by paltego
      about 2 years ago

      I’ve published stories at a couple of different sites:
      http://www.smtales.com/
      and
      http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/
      I found the smtales site to be much more friendly and helpful. Once you have created an author account there then you can add/edit/delete as much as you want without having to interact with the site managers every time.

      However, I’m not sure either of those sites support images with the stories. I don’t know of one that allows that offhand.

      Of course you could simply create a blog at one of the free hosting sites (like blogspot or tumblr) and post the images+stories there. Tricky to get readers if you go that route. The advantage of the dedicate fiction sites is that you automatically will get people reading what you write.

      Maybe post the stories at smtales and also create a tumblr to host the stories plus pictures? You could provide a link to the tumblr in the author information.

      Sorry not to be more helpful.

      -paltego

  • #14 written by FanFemDomArt
    about 2 years ago

    Hi, you have a Great site ,I loved especially the FemDom-Artwork even if I didnt find the Artworks of my preferred Artist.
    I wanted to let you know about the Fem-Dom Artworks by an Italian Artist named Aurè who celebrate the FemalePower in Art. His artworks features the Mediterranean Goddesses.
    Acelebration of Joy of Life, Humour and also an eye to Political scene as the Artist says:
    “a FemDom as Leader in our Country Now !”
    I found some of his artworks here:

    http://mistressfantasy.blogspot.com/search/label/AURE%27

    Maybe you’ll like his Artworks too.
    Thank you and Keep Up the Great Work!

  • #15 written by Cruel Love
    about 2 years ago

    This is a new Blog my husband and I are creating. It is a Femdom Caption blog, a bit over the top with multiple themes and elements. If this meets your criteria, we ask that you place it in your list of links.

    Thank you for your consideration,

    Cruel Love

  • #16 written by Name Richard
    about 2 years ago

    Great site
    Love the toilet box story built for Sarah by Jane.

    http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/wholestory.php?storyid=8523

    If you have a story or email list please add me

  • #17 written by Alana
    about 2 years ago

    Paltego – I enjoy your site. Here’s my new blog which you may find of interest.

    http://proprlyleashed-m.tumblr.com/

    Alana

  • #18 written by david buchanan
    about 2 years ago

    would appreciate if you could add my blog. Email link seems not to work for me http://scottiedoggie1.blogspot.co.uk/

  • #19 written by Alana
    about 2 years ago

    My error. Corrected tumblr URL: http://properlyleashed-m.tumblr.com/

  • #20 written by sunny
    about 2 years ago

    urs is really a great blog which has inspired me and

    breaking the taboo, i am an indian sharing my pictures

  • #21 written by cfnm
    about 2 years ago

    great blog. i see a nice collection of femdom links here. i love to be dominated and humiliated by clothed women.keep up the good work. and also please have a look at my site about CFNM. http://cfnmhandjob.com

    thanks for all your contribution.

  • #22 written by Augustine
    about 2 years ago

    Great site. I just stumbled upon it and want to thank you for your kind words regarding my art. I have recently opened a blog on tumblr where I’ll be posting newer works and gradually adding my older ones to the archive. Thanks for the great resource you provide and please keep it up.

    Augustine

  • #23 written by Cevinex
    about 2 years ago
  • #24 written by severinus
    about 2 years ago

    Hello Paltego – i found a really very expressive homepage of a Domina located in Bucuresti, Mistress Ezada Sinn – the pics are really awesome…
    http://mistressezada.com/photo-gallery/

  • #25 written by Yurs2Use
    about 2 years ago

    Thanks for the great artwork you’ve posted here.

    There is a pice of artwork i came across some months ago, and I can no longer locate it. Was hoping you could help. The image was titled “paperboy2.jpg”, and it depicted a young man lowering his pants to receive a hairbrushing from a neighbor woman whose window he had just broken with the toss of a newspaper.

    I just loved the nuances in the drawing and would like to see it again- if only I could find it! Please let me know if you have this picture, or know where to find it. Thanks!

    • #26 written by paltego
      about 1 year ago

      Sorry, that particular artwork doesn’t ring a bell with me. However, I’ll try and keep an eye out for it. It sounds fairly distinctive. If I come across it I’ll let you know.

      -paltego

      • #27 written by Yurs2use
        about 1 year ago

        As it happens, I finally figured out that I had sent a copy of the pic to a friend. I went back and found the email- and there it was! If you would like to receive a copy, just let me know where to send it.

  • #28 written by jimbo
    about 1 year ago

    Hi Paltego,
    First, your portfolio of femdomme photos is incredible–by far the best I’ve seen anywhere.
    I have a rather specialized fetish: Older (55+) sadistic women who smoke with a holder. Do you ever wonder what happens to all the beautiful younger dommes when they put on a few years? To me older women with a few wrinkles around their eyes but who have kept in shape (aside from smoking for erotic effect) are a total turn on. Have you ever seen any photos or sites that feature such exotic creatures?

    • #29 written by paltego
      about 1 year ago

      Glad you like the various images and links I’ve collected, but I’m afraid that offhand I can’t think of any sites that focus mainly on that particular content. There are definitely single images that meet that description, but they tend to be mingled in with all the other femdom tumblr content.

      I do know that Aarkey, whose blog is in my blogroll is a fan of smoking dommes, so you might want to check out the images on his blog.

      -paltego

  • #30 written by Abdiel
    about 1 year ago

    Popups….now..is it just me? However whenever I visit your wonderful site of late – and this happens on no other….I keep getting US adult pop ups at the base of the screen – really really really annoying..and I cannot get rid of them ..they follow you around as you navigate the site too..as I say – only on here – is this somthing anyone else is experienceing?

    • #31 written by paltego
      about 1 year ago

      Not to wish you ill or anything, but I suspect and hope that it’s just your computer. I’ve never carried adverts on this site and have no intention of starting. I’ve certainly added nothing like that recently, and I don’t see any popups on the different browsers and different computers I’ve tried. Might be worth running a malware scan to see if somebody has messed with your machine.

      -paltego

  • #32 written by Mikeeyy
    about 1 year ago

    Hey man,

    I really appreciate the traffic you have been sending to sex and metal, email Me when you get a minute.

    Michael

  • #33 written by Ken
    about 1 year ago

    I would invite you to check out our blog. We are a FLR couple living in Seattle and have been blogging almost three years. We feature our own pictures and I think you will find my Lady rather photogenic. We also have a Tumblr site (also ‘SpankedbymyLady’).

  • #34 written by jimbo
    about 1 year ago

    Hi Paltego,
    I’m not sure you got the email I sent you a few days ago which was to alert you to a fantastic, senusous, fetish model–Liegh Roberts (Liegh2 on FetLife)–who’s, believe it or not, is 69. She has a body that looks like it’s out of a painting by Rubens. One (or more) of her photographs would make a wonderful addition to your stunning collection.
    I think you’re doing a fantastic service to the BDSM/fetish community. Elegant sadism–I’m all for it!
    Jimbo

  • #35 written by jimbo
    about 1 year ago

    p.s. You can find more photos of Liegh on the website http://www.bodyofcolor.com

  • #36 written by Spencer John Derry
    about 1 year ago

    Hi, please take a look at my drawings at this link. thanks. spencer

    http://www.spencerjohnderry.co.uk/femdomeroticart.html

  • #37 written by Pete
    about 1 year ago

    Fantastic blog. I check it every day. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!

  • #38 written by Brigitte
    about 1 year ago

    Hi, I’m Brigitte,from Spain. I’m a lesbian and dominant women. I love feminized mens and make them pretty sissies.
    I invite you to visit my blog.
    ginarquiaencasa.canalblog.com I hope you like and include me in your favorite blogs.

  • #39 written by Metal Bondage Equipment
    about 1 year ago

    Hey man,

    Michael from Sex and Metal here, could you please email me and talk about some potential banner exchange or link exchange. Again thanks for the traffic you have been sending, Lots of people have come to our store looking for bondage equipment from here :)

  • #40 written by Midsummerboy
    about 1 year ago

    Love the blog; very entertaining, still building my blog; short stories on the superior sex being my particular kink.

  • #41 written by Carulli
    about 1 year ago

    A collection of femdom drawings. Most of them are from other sources, but the drawings made by ‘Carulli’ are the site owners own creations.
    regard
    ‘Carulli’

    Use them as you want.

  • #42 written by scott
    about 1 year ago

    where do I go to meet people in this lifestyle
    If I go to normal places and bring up the fact that I like the whole idea of a d/s b/d relationship and do not want to objectify her I want to meet a real woman who just happens to like tying up men

  • #43 written by PJ
    about 1 year ago

    Would like to know if you are aware of any femdom theme resorts or vacation spots in USA like the OWK in Europe? Suitable for a loving femdom couple, not quite as brutal as OWK! I would still be treated as a slave and servant to my mistress wife in that environment…is there a place like that here in USA?

  • #44 written by Paul
    about 2 months ago

    Hi,

    Wish i had come across your site earlier, fantastic job!!

    Hope you don’t mind, just posted a link to your site on my Tumblr page.

    FYI, some of the Equipment sites listed are a bit pricey. A local (SF Bay Area) location I visit is http://www.leathermasters.com in San Jose. Nice place with well priced items.

    Thanks so much for your site!!

    Paul AKA Me on Tumblr

    • #45 written by paltego
      about 2 months ago

      Hey,

      Thanks! Glad you like it. Very happy to have the link from your tumblr. I think your site has been in my image page list for a while now.

      The equipment page one is a tricky one for me to maintain. It’s easy to browse tumblrs or admire the work of artists, but I can’t easily shop at hundreds of BDSM stores and pick the best ones out (sadly!). Thanks for the tip on the leather masters site. I’ll add them to my equipment page when I next update it.

      -paltego

  • #46 written by retroguy
    about 1 month ago

    Hi there,

    I have been going through my web stats in the last couple of weeks, and noticed that quite a bit of my traffic comes from your blog. So, I came for a visit. I like your blog.

    So, many thanks for mentioning my site in your links, and if you are looking for information on vintage illustrations, and etc, don’t hesitate to ask. I’ll do my best to help out.

    kind regards,
    retroguy

  • #47 written by Mistress Pixie & Claire
    about 1 month ago

    Hi

    Mistress just wanted to drop you a message to let you know how much we enjoy your blog, so thanks!

    Its also inspired us to start our own, which has been an interesting experience so far (http://mistresspixiespaddle.wordpress.com/). Have added your site to our blogroll :-)

    Anyway, thanks again
    Mistress Pixie & Claire

    • #48 written by paltego
      about 1 month ago

      Glad you enjoy my blog, and I always appreciate new links to it.

      I’ve enjoyed reading the first few posts on your blog. I have a general rule that I only link to new blogs after they’ve been around a while (a few months) and stay active. I generally find that far too many new blogs start well but fizzle and die all too quickly (see this post for more thoughts on new blogs). But if yours continues as it has started I’ll be happy to link to it in the future.

      -paltego

  • #49 written by Claire
    about 1 month ago

    Hi paltego

    Certainly understand the linking policy, hopefully we will still be having as much fun with the blog in a few months! Glad you enjoyed the first few posts, were planning to update at least once a week, and hopefully more frequently than that. Fairly new to the whole blogging thing, so its an experience.

    Regards
    Mistress Pixie & Claire

  • #50 written by Karla Sakharov
    about 2 days ago

    It’s a terrific site, full of material. Thank you for assembling it.

    Would you remind me of the German (?) woman’s torture chalet? Sounded like a good place to send my boy.

    Thank you again,
    Karla