There’s one particular type of femdom shot I never enjoy. It’s the ones where it looks like the domme isn’t having any fun. I don’t mean shots where the domme looks angry or displeased. Getting mad at someone – even if its only roleplaying – can be cathartic. I mean ones where it’s hard to imagine what the domme is getting out of the scene.
Foot worship shots can be some of the worst for this. A respectful kiss or a shoe shine scene can be sexy. Even face tramping has appeal from a masochist/sadist perspective. But there’s a lot of shots out there where the primary adjectives that spring to my mind are slobbery, sticky and bored.
Here’s a great counter-example of a foot worship scene done right. Everyone looks like they’re getting something out of it. There’s even some grapes on the side for her to snack on while getting her feet massaged and cleaned. It’s all very thoughtful.
I’ve afraid I don’t know who this is or who created it. If you can help with an attribution, please let me know via a comment.
Update: Thanks to two helpful commenters, I’m attributing this to Rina Trevi. I haven’t found the original version to prove it 100%, but this seems correct. She’s an Austin based vulnerability coach. You can find her Twitter here and professional site here.
I believe this is the now Austin-based Rina Trevi.
Thanks a lot! Post updated.
-paltego
I agree with Michael. That is Rina Trevi. She is very holistic, and this image is very much her style.
Thanks! Two votes makes it official for me :-). I’ve updated the post.
-paltego
Ah, now as is occasionally the case I’m not with you on that one, Paltego. I adore images of ladies looking utterly bored and fed up while foot or boot worship is going on. It’s the contrast between the intense, focused sexual obsession of the male, as against the lady finding it pointless and no longer even funny, because she’s read all the articles in her magazine twice now and the pervy little wanker still hasn’t finished, for goodness’ sake!
But then the whole ‘worthless worm / contemptuous goddess’ thing is something we’ve previously established we don’t have in common.
You’re missing out, though. That particular kind of femdom shot is all over the Internet, so maybe I’m in the majority here. The entire output of ‘Foot Cleaning Caffe'(yes it did have two ‘f’s in ‘caffe’), for instance. It seems to have closed but Google’s image search provides a decent overview. Wonderful indifference.
The photographs from that site are really something. I can kind of get into the sneering indifference or cruel indifference, but those shots really capture the mood of “I’d rather be anywhere else” indifference! Definitely not my thing, but clearly there is a significant audience who share your delight.
-paltego