My kinky odyssey in LA started today with a fabulous session with Mistress Iris. As I mentioned the last time we played, she’s one of the few (only?) dommes who can push me into subspace without pain being involved. Normally my masochistic side has to get involved to get me spacey, but today I got little adrenaline body shivers just from teasing, pinching, slapping and light bondage. She has a real knack for managing to be both sensual and reserved, intimate but also unobtainable. It’s a style that works wonderfully well for tease and denial. Plus, we also laughed a lot. There’s nothing sexier than a happy, laughing domme.
This is from Mistress Iris’s gallery page. If you’re interested in setting up a session yourself she has a number of tour dates listed.
Pinching and slapping gives pain too… So your masochistic Side was involved
I guess technically that’s true. However, I tend to differentiate between playful and teasing light pinching/slapping and the more serious things like nipple clamps and paddling. The former feels more like interesting sensations rather than pain in the ‘ouch’ sense.
-paltego
When I read your “Travel” update, I said to myself: Paltego must be either the riel Christian Grey or the world’s greatest bank robber, how else can he afford so much sensuous joy?
Then I finished this post on who makes you shiver, I realized mistress Iris should promote you to be her full-time copywriter/reporting slave/insert_job_title_here immediately. Such a lovely description on how kink can be about people, rather than just toys ‘n’ pain. And yes: “nothing sexier than a happy, laughing domme”, I couldn’t agree more. Just don’t look into her eyes. After all, there is such a thing as too much happiness.
Enjoy your odyssey Robin H. No doubt it will include being tied to the mast by the Sirens at some point. Just remember, rob only the banks of those who can afford it.
Sadly I don’t have the billions needed to be a real life Christian Grey. Just an overpaid tech guy on the West Coast, with no dependents and no debt. I feel it’s my duty to re-distribute such unearned wealth to all the fine dommes of the area!
Glad you enjoyed the post and thanks for such kind words. Mistress Iris definitely pulls off the happy and the sexy. She’s a wonderful domme. At its heart kink for me is all about people – the toys and sensations are just the dressing.
If I do encounter sirens, I may be in trouble. I might enjoy some mast bondage, but I was never one to resist the call of a maiden with a beautiful voice.
-paltego