We’re out of Loctober and into No Nut November. It’s just an endless festival of none orgasms at this time of year.
I tend to subscribe to the views expressed in this Stockroom article about No Nut November. Loctober puts the focus on kink and is therefore sex positive. Even if the end result for participants is negative sex. NNN unhealthily shifts the emphasis more to shame and suppressing desire. That’s not surprising given it’s original growth in incel culture.
That said, there are people out there trying to reclaim it and give it a happy new home in kink. For example, the most excellent Maya Midnight posted this to Bluesky.
No Nut November actually started as a lame anti-porn thing but has since become a sexy chastity thing and I just think that’s beautiful
Let’s hope it keeps trending in that direction.
Mentioning Maya does give me an excuse to share this lovely image of her. I’ve always been a big fan of grey hair. And of men in cages of course. This is from her Bluesky feed. You can find her professional site here.