BDSM Equipment

I’ve collected these links from a wide variety of sources including forums, directory sites, blogs and pro-domme wish lists (a particularly rich vein to mine). One thing I haven’t done is personally shopped at all of them. This list represents a starting point, not any kind of personal endorsement from me.

If you own a site or know of a site that you’d like me to include then drop me a line. However, note that there are a couple of criteria for inclusion. I’ve already listed a number of large general purpose BDSM equipment sites, so don’t bother if you’re just another cookie cutter BDSM shopping site. Nobody needs 20 places to buy a red ballgag at exactly the same price. Also ensure that your site doesn’t look like it was designed in the early 90′s. It doesn’t have to be at the cutting edge of web technology, but I tend to the view that a crappy website indicates a badly run business.

The default assumption is that sites are US based, and where that isn’t true I’ve called it out explicitly. Obviously a lot of places will ship internationally, so location needn’t be a limiting factor in a lot of cases.

Large Sites

General toys and equipment

Medical

Electrical

  • ErosTek – Maker of the ET312P, one of the best power units on the market.
  • Mystim – German based with a not particularly readable English site.
  • P.E.S.

Chastity

  • Birdlocked – A silicone chastity device.
  • CB-6000 – Probably the best known chastity device on the market.
  • Kept For Her – Offers equipment, testimonials and comparative shopping charts.
  • Male Chastity Devices – Offer a large selection of different chastity devices.
  • Mature Metal – Sells several different steel options including the Jail Bird.
  • Neo Steel – Their web site is awful, but I’m assured they make a quality product
  • Steelwerks – Creators of some beautiful custom made steel devices.

Furniture

Clothes

 

  • #1 written by james
    about 1 year ago

    very helpful, just one question.

    Where do you get those small electric shock things kink use all the time in their films.

    They are about 25cm long with black handle and red slightly tapered. on the end they spark and make a crack. I need one!

    • #2 written by paltego
      about 1 year ago

      I know exactly the device you mean, and I have no idea where you get them from. I’ve seen them in a lot of kink shots, but I’ve never seen a stun gun store that carries anything similar. I’ll keep an eye out for you.

      -paltego

    • #4 written by Gryphon's Den
      about 1 year ago

      The Kink Shop out of Shreveport carries them. You order from them. They also vend at most of the kink events in the U.S.

      http://thekinkshop.com/kink_030.htm

  • #5 written by james
    about 1 year ago

    thanks for that ordered one!

  • #6 written by andrew
    about 1 year ago

    Hiya :-) do you fancy adding our little website http://www.kinkyspanks.com to your list please ? Specialists in handmade wooden clamps, paddles, humblers and floggers – and every single thing on our site is completely hand made at our Derbyshire workshops. We also welcome requests from complementary suppliers with a view to link-building. Kind regards – Andrew

    • #7 written by paltego
      about 1 year ago

      You’re already there! I added you back in December :)

  • #8 written by silk
    about 1 year ago

    too bad there is nothing about silk scarves bondage and silk scarves mummification, sigh

    Women are said to be very good at tying & mummifying using silk scarves but I can’t find even a single topic here, what a shame?

  • #9 written by Natasha
    about 1 year ago

    I ordered from fetishmetal.com and loved their custom made products +++!!

  • #10 written by Metal Bondage Equipment
    about 1 year ago

    Michael from Sex & Metal here, We have a new store now live we awesome new products, Thanks for the link :)

  • #11 written by KK
    about 10 months ago

    Hi we would love to be included in your list. We are UK based and happy to be of assistance. http://www.kinkykandi.com

  • #12 written by BiggerHarderFaster.com
    about 5 months ago

    Hello!
    We’d love to be added to your list too!
    http://www.biggerharderfaster.com
    Thanks you for your consideratoin.
    Cheers

  • #13 written by marksubhub
    about 5 months ago

    Hi. I’ve been building a new dungeon for my Wife/Mistress and this guide has been ever so helpful; EvilToys is excellent for furniture and i’ve also bought some CP gear from House of Eros.
    Thankyou for being so inspirational, it looks like I may be in the good books for a change :)

    • #14 written by paltego
      about 5 months ago

      Thanks for letting me know it was useful. Always happy to hear that I’ve helped people to have more kinky fun!

      -paltego

  • #15 written by mistress stella
    about 2 months ago

    Where can I buy 25mm, 28mm and 30mm rattan canes?

  • #16 written by Leather Bondage
    about 2 months ago

    Kindly include http://www.myeroticescape.com/ on the list they carry a large selection of BDSM equipments and machines!

  • #17 written by james
    about 2 months ago

    cupids bedroom is a dead link!

  • #18 written by ANGELO
    about 1 month ago

    Hello!
    We’d love to be added to your list too ;-)
    http://www.gay-shop.fr
    Thanks a lot