Femdom Links

This is a general collection of useful links to femdom forums, resources, articles, aggregators, pro-domme directories, etc. If you’ve any links that you think would be appropriate to add here then either leave a comment or email me.

Pro-domme resources

Personal recommendations

I don’t have the time to maintain a general directory of pro-domme sites. However, I will list the pro-dommes I’ve done sessions with and, most importantly, that I would happily recommend to others. I’m sure there are many other great dommes in the cities below, but these are the ones I can speak to personally. In several cases I’ve posted descriptions and photographs of my experiences.

Directories

  • Dickie Virgin. One of the longest running and most comprehensive directories.
  • DomBoss Domina Directory. Run by the famous Domina Irene Boss, this has both a US and World directory. Unfortunately it’s not sorted by state or city, which makes it less than ideal to navigate (although there is a search function).
  • Femme Fatale Directory. A very modern and slickest looking directory. There’s no overall list to browse, but the search function works really well and there’s a pictures for every mistress.
  • HogSpy. This has daily updates publicizing events related to specific pro-dommes. e.g. Visiting new cities, moved playspaces, updated their sites, etc.
  • Open Adult Directory – BDSM listings. This is a very comprehensive collection of dommes across the world, with the exception of the US. For some reason it covers Canada and Mexico, but missed out the big bit between the two.
  • Sin Search. It’s a pretty basic layout, but it has a good collection of links for dommes across the world.

Communities and forums

  • Collar N Cuffs. A dedicated femdom site with forums, blogs, photos, etc. You need to complete their free sign-up before you can browse it.
  • Fetlife. By far the largest BDSM community site, this is the kinky equivalent of Facebook. That comparison holds not only for its size and functionality, but also for all the data sharing and management issues that their business models create.
  • The Hang. The set of forums associated with the Max Fisch Domina Guide. Primarily focused on pro-domme interaction, but there are also general discussion on femdom, kink, health issues, etc. It’s all openly browsable, but the moderation is erratic and it can sometimes take weeks to register as a new user.
  • The Reddit Femdom. I wouldn’t go here looking for expert advice, but it can be a fun place to dip in and out of.

Aggregator sites

  • Femdom City. Provides links to an incredible number of femdom sites of all different types. The only problem is that they’re all mixed together into a simple alphabetical list, which makes finding anything tricky.
  • Femdom Planet. Another site with a vast number of links. Fun for randomly browsing, but not great for tracking down a specific type of site.
  • Femdom TGP. Mostly links to porn galleries and video clips. The layout is crowded and hard to follow, but it can be fun to play femdom porn roulette by clicking around on it.

Guidance and reference material

  • Ambrosio’s BDSM site. This has long list of articles and essays on various kinky topics, although it’s not specific to femdom.
  • Collar N Cuffs resources. This site has a fantastic list covering all sorts of topics. There are both essay and video tutorials, on everything from making rope gags to prostrate milking.
  • Submissive Guide. A lot of its posts are written from the perspective of female submission, but I think a large fraction of them can be applied to male submission as well.
  • Tickleberry. Originally this mainly featured information on chastity play, but it seems to have branched out to cover things like pegging and spanking as well.

Interesting writing / listening

  • Clarisse Thorn is, in her owns words, a “feminist, pro-BDSM sex-positive activist.” Her writing is less about the mechanics of BDSM, and a lot more about it’s interaction with relationships, self-image and sexual politics.
  • Masocast. A podcast run by Axe that features interviews with kinky people in NYC.
  • Savage Love and Savage Lovecast. The advice column/podcast from Dan Savage. Neither are explicitly about kink, but they often touch on it, and Dan is always worth listening to.

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