This 1970’s Japanese Femdom image comes courtesy of Bacchus at ErosBlog. In his original post he mentions the prevalence of spitting in modern porn and how it’s often used to add a note of humiliation into a scene. That’s certainly true, and it’s not a kink that does much for me. However, I think that spitting can be a surprisingly flexible act. Much like a golden shower scene, it can work as humiliation, reward or intimacy at a distance. It just depends where you direct it.
One spitting technique that’s particularly fun is ‘baby bird’. That’s where the domme carefully drops her spit into the open mouth of the submissive. Done with a snarl it could of course be humiliating, but its typically more an offering dynamic. It’s an intimate act, a reward, but with a sense of control and distance from the domme. Where tease and denial meets kissing. A neat variation on it is for the domme to take a swig of water and then trickle it into the mouth of the submissive. This pushes much the same buttons, but has the added advantage of being able to hydrate a submissive in the middle of a scene when he’s still tied up. I will add, from personal experience, that throwing an open mouth gag into the mix makes this kind of scene particularly hot.
On a first visit to a lovely domme, I had a bit of a cough and while I was tied up she unexpectedly ‘baby birded’ me with cough syrup. Ahhhh.
That’s sweet. Although probably not on the list of dose directions on the back of the bottle :-).
-paltego
i love it when my wife covers my face in saliva. it is exquisite when my eyes hold so much opening them makes it dribble down my face. its humiliating to lay there as she licks and spits on me. doubly so if im not allowed to wash up when we are done. i can smell her hours later or the next morning.