This is the last of a progressive trio of posts going from gags, to gags with fluids, to just fluids alone.
I always find drool and saliva play interesting from a personal perspective (I enjoy it) and from the contradictory reactions it provokes. I suspect if you showed these images to a non-kinky person (unfortunately I don’t have one handy to test) their reaction would be one of ‘Ugh. Nasty. She’s spitting in his mouth.’ And spitting does indeed have a very negative connotation. Yet a normal part of making out and kissing involves sharing saliva, albeit as a side effect rather the main event. There’s even a slang expression for kissing that explicitly calls it out – swapping spit. So a sloppy kiss is fine, but separate the mouths by a few inches and suddenly the same liquid is yucky. It seems that just introducing a slight suggestion of spitting or drooling dramatically changes the dynamic of the act.
I’d guess that evolution has programmed us with an innate aversion to something spat out by someone else. It suggests a nasty taste or rottenness, something unhealthy. Most guys aren’t going to have an issue making out with a random cute girl they meet in a bar. But have the same cute girl spit in their drink and they’ll be very unhappy, even though there’s really no difference from a hygiene perspective. Of course from a kinky perspective, any activity that invokes a strong emotional reaction is going to be an interesting one play with. Particularly when it centers around issues such as trust, intimacy, disgust and social taboos.
Strange, but opening my mouth to receive my Domme’s spit (or some other female or Dom’s) evokes a greater response than making myself available for her piss. Perhaps it’s the more socially acceptable (although disgusting) notion of seeing someone spit in public rather than piss. Who knows….
RW
That is a little surprising to me. Personally I find piss consumption a bigger emotional rush, but as you say, who knows how we get wired for certain things to be D/s hot buttons for each us. There’s no kinky standard for these things 🙂
I have found that using a whitehead gag (as shown in yesterdays post) does create a very powerful effect for me when combined with a domme spitting or drooling in my mouth. Which is weird, because it’s not like the gag is necessary. I’ll happily take it. But somehow being forced to do it makes it that much hotter.
-paltego
Hi paltego,
Spitting is a common final gesture in pro-domme sessions in Japan. Been there a time or two. Something almost archetypal about it. First time a Japanese Mistress paused over my face, I knew instinctively what she wanted. I opened My mouth and accepted her.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly’s Playhouse
Hi scott,
That’s interesting, I didn’t realize it was commonly formalized in that way in Japan. Some US/Euro dommes obviously will do it as part of a session, but I’ve never heard of it being a specific closing act. It makes sense as the majority of the images of it I’ve seen have been from that part of the world, so it’s clearly a more common kink over there. Thanks for the info.
Incidentally, have you ever blogged about your visits to pro-dommes in Japan? Or was it all lost when blogger screwed over your old blog?
-paltego